影片在glory glory 哈里路亞～～的歌聲里開始

一
peter:"I'm really sorry"
ethel:"no need to,it's his time to go"
peter:"no,I mean about being late...."

二
ethel:"this house"
mary:"it's a kind of strange,coming back to the house he built wihtout him in it"
ethel:"hamm"
 
三
ehtel:"but you must never ever let a man build you a house,as long as you stay there,you just live with him"

四
chuck:"so how do you say three "I"s in spanish?"
...
chuck:"I ya ya"

五
queenland:"last time someone used this switch is 50 years ago"
...
bombing...

六
ethel:"I will always love you teddy,I will be yours till dead I swear,there will be a room for you in my heart no one else not ever untill I'm leaving my grave"

七
ethel:"I was 21 years old my life was over,you don't know what greeving is"

八
jack:"too much,not though enough"

九
teddy:"I know that chuck, but if something happens to me, you've got to promise you take care of ethel,promise me."

十
jimmy:"sorry america long distance"
woman:"you could have walked to her in that time"

十一
jack:"you keep smiling whatever you hear you keep smiling"

十二
ethel:"I had our names put inside of it, you will merry me with it, and then you're going to take it with you, so you can remember me wherever you go"

十三
mary:"he loved you, inspite all of these, he loved you,but you never did,did you? in all his life he knew you locked your love behind this god dammed wall"
ethel；“there was no proof,and that was all he left to me."
mary:"I don't care about him,you bitch,you shut daddy out,and then you shut me out,all my life,all you have done is to shut us out"

十四
jack:"I was lying of course,I loved ethel so much that it hurts just thinking about her. so did chuck,three guys wanted her and two of them got her and non of them was me."

十五
mary:"I love you chuck,I never heard her say those words, not once."
jack:"no,they had good times together,they made good couple."
mary:"they did nver spoke,they both knew what was behind that wall and they didn't say a damm thing to eachother in 50 years,neither did you"
jack:"oh we didn't need to"
mary:"everybody needs to talk"
jack:"no honey,everybody needs to cry.but your mother never did,not once,you have to forgive her for that"
mary:"you ever wished you pushed in and merried mum?"
jack:"oh no, don't ask me that please...I was dead, we all got killed in mind,all of us,and teddy didn't choose me,he could cure and it was my turn to die,I deserved it,I deserved it..."

十六
jack:"she's gone,she's gone,to belfast to look for bits of memory..."
mary:"jack,dad never told her,did he, that teddy make him promise to merry her"
jack:"no"
mary:"why not? it looks she had teddy's permission"
peter:"why didn't you say something"
jack:"because it was not her godammed business!!!"
peter:"you're a coward,dad, and you're a lier,you lied to chuck and teddy, and the worst of all, you lied to yourself"

十七
jimmy:"have you ever been in love mr'quinlan?"
quinlan:"no life is hard enough"
jimmy:"so is it possible to love more than once?"
elinna:"and when I had..."
quilan:"that's for sure..."
jimmy:"but if you promise to love one person and no one else for ever and ever"
quilan:"not make promises like that"
elinna:"aof course you can, but can't keep,but it worths making though"

影片在ethel山頂上對著天上的鷹的哭聲中結(jié)束

本來今天去電影院的原始目的是去看宮崎駿的新作《崖上的ポニョ》的。然而到達電影院的時候不早不晚，為了省時間，就隨便選了這部最早開演的片子——進去的時候甚至連片名是什么都沒看清楚。

情節(jié)可簡單概括如下：
三個男人愛上了一個女人。第一個男人和她結(jié)婚了，他死了。第二個男人和她結(jié)婚了，然后也死了。第三個男人終于和她獲得了幸福！

同事問：那么戒指呢？
戒指，只是一條線索罷了……

剛開始的時候很混亂。鏡頭在現(xiàn)在與60年前的美國及愛爾蘭來回切換，大量的出場人物很快就搞得我暈頭轉(zhuǎn)向。而因為這些復(fù)雜的關(guān)系，最后的部分感覺有些冗長拖?！駝t怎么交代得清楚。導(dǎo)演雖然用抽絲剝繭法將謎題一個一個地逐步解開了，不過還是看得我有些不耐煩起來。特別是連IRA都扯進去了，歷史感有是有了，陰謀論卻和主線關(guān)系不夠深。

愛情的承諾，忠貞的愛情，純真的友情。
老套嗎？ 早已淚流滿面。
可愛的小伙子，大開了一位老人的心結(jié)。
多么美妙美好的情感，一切情感。

    從小到大，對承諾一直看得很重，所以不會輕易承諾，清楚地知道，一旦承諾必須付諸行動，但這不等于不承諾，有把握做到的才會去承諾，所以一個很會許諾的的人是不可能去交往的?，F(xiàn)在社會，不知道有多少人還相信愛情，還會有多少人因為愛情承諾并信守自己的諾言，承諾有時看似一種累贅，但信守的過程應(yīng)該是充實的，好比一個有了信仰的人。

終于又遇見一部賺到眼淚的電影了。《Closing The Ring》，又名《物歸原主》。
    一枚戒指，披著半個世紀(jì)的滄桑，跨越大西洋，從遙遠的貝爾法斯特，輾轉(zhuǎn)來到美國的伯納根，當(dāng)它再次抖落泥土，重現(xiàn)世人眼前的那刻起，故事就已經(jīng)展開，真是令人難以置信的奇跡。
    被飛機的殘骸與山間的灰塵封鎖起的往事，50年后還在困擾著活著的人，對死者的承諾，那些未能完全信守的誓言，束縛了艾瑟兒，綁住了昆蘭，他們耗盡了幾乎一輩子的時光去尋求彌補，甚至不惜搭上本可以重新?lián)碛械男腋！：苡蟹N宿命的味道，對死者的追念讓這樣一群人，神奇地穿過時空，相聚到這片土地，最終獲得屬于自己的解脫。
    老實說，這個女人還是幸運的，也許并不足夠幸福。她最好的時光，奉獻給了最愛的泰迪；漫長的婚姻生活，與耐心包容且深愛著她的查克度過；送走查克的晚年，又等到了杰克的勇敢坦白。這樣一個守著50年的對愛情的承諾、堅強而執(zhí)拗的女人，在她的眼里幾乎看不到除了愛情以外的東西，不能不說是個為愛而生的靈魂。
    也許她可以選擇更好地活，在泰迪死后，在查克的身邊。她對泰迪的愛，在漫長的歲月里，或許已經(jīng)退化成一種更為深切的情感，比年輕時熾烈的愛情，更為彌久悠遠；只是查克的死，再一次讓她體味到失去的痛苦，觸發(fā)了半個世紀(jì)前那一直都沒有解脫出來的打擊和痛苦。葬禮前后，她表現(xiàn)得出乎意料地冷漠和平靜，就連悲傷也需要別人提醒著去做。杰克說的沒錯，她確實需要悲傷，不是因為眼前查克為她付出的50年時光，而是為了那隨著泰迪一同離去的早已枯亡的心。
    她需要某種儀式，進行她沒有來得及的告別，她甚至沒有找到泰迪的遺體，沒有機會和她心愛的泰迪說聲再見，也沒有能在往后漫長的歲月里給自己一個自由的借口。她當(dāng)街跪在那個死去的士兵身邊，全然不顧炸彈隨時爆炸的危險，握著那個陌生人的手，就像是越過時間的阻隔，在這片灑下泰迪鮮血的土地上，守在即將死去的他的身邊，認認真真道聲永別。也許還差一句咒語，一句宣告自由的咒語吧。難為泰迪臨死前也想到了這一點，還不忘交代昆蘭。難道他真的對自己的死有這么強烈的預(yù)感嗎，以至于把后事安排得如此妥帖，令人匪夷所思…
    我想真正偉大的，不是泰迪，不是艾瑟兒，不是查克，也不是杰克。故事里的每個人，身上都閃著一種特殊的光芒——對真愛的尊重和信任。也許你我都還沒遇到過所謂的真愛，也許你我這輩子都沒機會見識，但別懷疑，千萬別懷疑它的存在。
    相信它就好。