這不能算是一部愛情電影，而更像一部家庭電影。一對(duì)處于離婚邊緣的夫妻，在要向孩子最終坦白之前，回心轉(zhuǎn)意。說實(shí)話，在看時(shí)，我并不期望會(huì)有這樣的結(jié)局，但我又知道，這是這類片子的一般形式?；橐鍪菓賽鄣膲?zāi)?？我不懂。但我能接受影片中的另一個(gè)對(duì)婚姻的闡述：婚姻不是兩個(gè)人之間的關(guān)系，而是六個(gè)人。除了夫妻之間，還有他們的父母。因?yàn)槲覀兌际亲约焊改傅睦^承與延續(xù)?！捌吣曛W”應(yīng)該是每對(duì)夫妻都要經(jīng)理的過程。最浪漫的，或許真的就是——和你一起慢慢變老。

故事的開始通過敘述夫妻兩個(gè)人的矛盾問題展開，沒有跌宕起伏的驚險(xiǎn)，只有真情的表露，好像在看自己的故事，為自己悲傷，快樂，這不是一部簡單的電影，它是一部讓我們懂得寬容，愛，持續(xù)愛的 故事。

非常值得看，另外建議快結(jié)婚的人可以看，讓人真正知道什么叫生活的電影，或者是一部科教片，讓你懂得未來怎么愛的科教片。

大二的時(shí)候，某堂課，老師安排我們看的這部電影，我印象很深，女主最后淚流滿面地說出那番話的時(shí)候我也淚流滿面。十年過去了，我的狀態(tài)跟那時(shí)無異，心境也跟那時(shí)無異。在PPS上點(diǎn)開了這部電影（當(dāng)然我事先并不知道就是那部電影），坐在階梯教室里的那種感覺又回來了，真想念校園。
之前我說，很多人會(huì)說經(jīng)歷了某些后懂得了某些，為什么我不經(jīng)歷也懂得。這就是為什么。

Katie:That's not why I'm saying Chow Funs. Funs, I'm saying Chow Funs because we're an us. There's a history here, and histories don't happen overnight. In Mesopotamia or Ancient Troy there are cities built on top of other cities, but I don't want another city, I like this city. I know what kind of mood your in when you wake up by which eyebrow is higher, and you know I'm a little quiet in the morning and compensate accordingly, that's a dance you perfect over time. And it's hard, it's much harder than I thought it would be, but there's more good than bad and you don't just give up! And it's not for the sake of the children, but God they're great kids aren't they? And we made them, I mean think about that! It's like there were no people there, and then there were people and they grew, and an an an I won't be able to say to some stranger Josh has your hands or remember how Erin threw up at the Lincoln Memorial And I'll try to relax, let's face it, anybody is going to have traits that get on your nerves, I mean, why shouldn't it be your annoying traits, and I know I'm no day at the beach, but I do have a good sense of direction so I can at least find the beach, which isn't a weakness of yours, it's a strength of mine. And God your a good friend and good friends are hard to find. Charlotte said that in Charlottes Web and I love how you read that to Erin and you take on the voice of Wilber the Pig with such dedication even when your bone tired. That speaks volumes about character! And ultimately, isn't that what it comes down too? What a person is made of? That girl in the pin helmet is still here 'bee boo bee boo' I didn't even know she existed until you and I'm afraid if you leave I may never see her again, even though I said at times you beat her out of me, isn't that the paradox? Haven't we hit the essential paradox? Give and take, push and pull, the yen the yang. The best of times, the worst of times!I think Dickens said it best, 'He could eat no fat, his wife could eat no lean', but, doesn't really apply here does it? What I'm trying to say is, I'm saying Chow Funs because, I love you.

　Katie:That's not why I'm saying Chow Funs. Funs, I'm saying Chow Funs because we're an us.
There's a history here, and histories don't happen overnight. In Mesopotamia or Ancient Troy there are cities built on top of other cities, but I don't want another city, I like this city.
I know what kind of mood your in when you wake up by which eyebrow is higher, and you know I'm a little quiet in the morning and compensate accordingly, that's a dance you perfect over time. And it's hard, it's much harder than I thought it would be, but there's more good than bad and you don't just give up!
And it's not for the sake of the children, but God they're great kids aren't they? And we made them, I mean think about that! It's like there were no people there, and then there were people and they grew, and an an an I won't be able to say to some stranger Josh has your hands or remember how Erin threw up at the Lincoln Memorial And I'll try to relax, let's face it, anybody is going to have traits that get on your nerves, I mean, why shouldn't it be your annoying traits, and I know I'm no day at the beach, but I do have a good sense of direction so I can at least find the beach, which isn't a weakness of yours, it's a strength of mine.
And God your a good friend and good friends are hard to find. Charlotte said that in Charlottes Web and I love how you read that to Erin and you take on the voice of Wilber the Pig with such dedication even when your bone tired. That speaks volumes about character! And ultimately, isn't that what it comes down too? What a person is made of? That girl in the pin helmet is still here 'bee boo bee boo' I didn't even know she existed until you and I'm afraid if you leave I may never see her again, even though I said at times you beat her out of me, isn't that the paradox? Haven't we hit the essential paradox? Give and take, push and pull, the yen the yang.
The best of times, the worst of times!I think Dickens said it best, 'He could eat no fat, his wife could eat no lean', but, doesn't really apply here does it?

 What I'm trying to say is, I'm saying Chow Funs because, I love you.